You two are about to become one. Are you excited about it?

If you are not, we understand. In reality, two different lives, styles, and opinions have every opportunity to always disagree, especially when it comes to wedding planning.

The process of planning your big day does not have to become burdensome or put stress on your relationship. You and your Love can use the experience to draw even closer by foreseeing common challenges of event planning and implementing a strategy to avoid the tension.

Above all else, your wedding celebrates the first day of your marriage, and your life together—in all ways, cherish it and prepare for it together.

Always remember why you are doing this

When you reach a point of almost having an argument, stop. Breathe, and remember what is most important— your love for one another.

Encourage and compliment each other during the process. Maybe even write a list of things you love about your wife or husband to be.

Wedding planning is just that— planning.

It’s a job.

On top of your 9 to 5, and grocery shopping, and paying bills, wedding planning is a full-time job. Many couples hire a wedding coordinator because throwing an elaborate event is not easy. Approach this huge undertaking with the right mindset and avoid being overwhelmed with the actuality of it.

Give room for expression

Perhaps you’ve planned your wedding since you were a child and have every detail solidified. Or perhaps your favorite colors are clashing in a cacophony of random ideas. Either way, get alone and write out your ideal wedding, down to the last detail. Know your own heart.

Both you and your partner should write down your ideas separate from each other. Give each other freedom to dream.

Once your desires are expressed, come together. Talk about your perfect wedding ideas.

Listen.

Don’t be horrified that your Love wants to have a horse ride at Munyonyo or a boat-ride to Kasenyi, Use this opportunity to get to know each other better. Listen to them speak about their wedding fantasies, Laugh at the extremely weird ones together, and Learn from when they decide to share an experience.

Dream together

Talk logistics later. Hear each other’s hearts. No moms. No best friends. This is about the two of you, and not your neighbors, friends or close family. Go an extra mile to write a list of your dream wedding.

From your two separate lists, write another combined list. Prioritize the most important parts of your dreams, speak honestly, listen, and remember, first things first.

The Budget Talk

This can be intimidating, but, set a budget before the hullabaloo of planning. Guard against hurt feelings and hashing it out with your service providers. It is very important to share what you financial stand is for the both of you so that there are no misunderstandings.

In the Ugandan context, men are expected to carry the heavier burden of financing the wedding, it is important to share with your spouse so that their expectations are clear from the start.

Remembering why you set your budget will help keep both of you grounded, and also on good terms toward your wedding.

Always have a countdown to your wedding day

Take out your calendars. Count the days ‘till you say ‘I do’. This helps in two ways. First, it is a reality check. Your wedding day might seem far off, but when you realize that it is only twelve weeks away, you start to work towards fulfilling the urgent tasks. Secondly, a countdown helps you coordinate. Who needs to do what? By when? Write it down. Set alarms and notifications. Check in with each other, Make sure you are on the same page. Literally.

Let people help you

There are a few of people, close friends, and family that are more than likely to want to help.

Have people who are willing to help you. Weddings traditionally are for the people, by the people. You cannot pull off a major, multi-thousand dollar event alone. Utilize the people who are willing to help. Hire where you need to. Decide what you want to do and what you want others to do. Then, communicate kindly, clearly, and in as much in advance as possible.

Before you set out to plan your wedding, wedding planning puts a strain on your relationships. Guard yourselves against it. Plan down times. Schedule dates intermittently, with no wedding talk allowed. The wedding is just an event, just a day.

How you learn to handle stress as a couple will affect the rest of your lives.

So, dream. Plan ahead. But expect surprises. Make time for laughter. And never lose sight of the joy of sharing life with the one you love.

Lastly, always remember that no matter how stressful the task of planning might become, bask in the joy of having someone to share your life with. Never lose track of the blessing of having someone to love.

Weddings are becoming very expensive and about appearances lately that most couples do not get the chance to enjoy their day. However that can be changed if the couple takes a chance with the pre-wedding photo shoot.

This has become the first thing to plan for in a wedding. The shoot is the time where couples can have fun, and openly share the detail of their love for each other.  

Pre-wedding photoshoots also help prepare you for your big day in aspects of how to stand alongside your partner, how to smile and not show how tensed up you are, and also how to express your deepest feelings for your bride or bridegroom in the moments when your photography is being captured.

What better way is there to have fun than including “fun”tastic and prompts in the shoot? Besides choosing a perfect spot for your shoot, purchasing the best outfits and hiring the best photographers, you can add a unique touch to your photoshoot with some of those. If you’re in a dilemma about what to prompt your pre-wedding photoshoot, here’s a list you can consider-

Engagement Rings

A photo of you and your partner with your engagement rings makes a great photo to be added to your wedding invitation or album. This photo will definitely remind you of your bond and commitment and why you are choosing to take this journey together.

Flowers

Flowers are quintessential to any wedding. Flower bouquets are a common addition in any photoshoot. Attractive and colorful flowers can brighten up any situation and they can also add an extra romantic effect. You can use unique floral bouquets or floral arrangements for your photo shoot. You can also use just the flower petals for a more classic photo.

Balloons

Balloons are undoubtedly the perfect choice for a photo shoot. They come in all sizes and shapes and in all colors. These usually add more vibrancy to any pre-wedding photoshoot, and will light up your mood and spirit. You can also use balloons in a more creative and unique way to announce your wedding date.

Banners

Not just on the walls, but banners also add some spice to the wedding photoshoot. They come in various sizes and shapes. You can use banners to announce your wedding date or the names of you and your partner. You can simply hang the banners on the tree or wall or you and your partner can hold each end of the banner

A frame or Placard

A frame in a photo adds a unique touch to the photo. You can hold the frame together with your partner to spice up your pre-wedding photoshoot. You can also use colorful frames to add more fun and to give different poses. This is a must-have if you and your partner love to pose. You can rent a frame from photo booth companies. You can also get additional props like big glasses, beards, mustaches, etc. The more creative the props, the more fun your photoshoot could turn out to be.

Have a Script

Lastly, consider having a script. Many Ugandan photographers that we have worked with suggest that having a script before you take your pre-wedding photoshoot. The script could be about your “how we met story”, “your favorite fairytale”, or whatever interests you.

Book a pre-wedding photoshoot with us, and we will help you come up with a theme, a script and location.

Have you ever wondered!
Should I hire a professional beauty artist (hairstyle and make-up) for my wedding in Uganda?
Our answer is OH LA LA YES! And here is why:

• BEAUTY PRO

  Their job is to make you look your best on your special day. Unless you are a beauty PRO, it’s best to rely on a professional when it comes to your looks.

• MATCHING COLORS

  They will know what colors match your unique aspect and features. Even if you only want to look natural, hiding skin complexities can be challenging.

• LASTING LOOK

  They use professional products, some that are not even available in mainstream shops. This will help keep your looks throughout the day as professional make-up and hair last.

Weddings in Uganda – Professional make-up and hairstyle for your wedding day
Whether or not you will opt for professional bridal hair and make-up in Uganda, keep in mind that most of the time it’s windy outside. As you’ll be exploring different parts for your wedding photos, you want your hair looking on-point all the time.
The good news is, SERAPHIC PICTURES has worked with many professional bridal hair and makeup artists, so you can rest assured that our recommendations will serve your best interests and save you the uncertainty.